What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do

We've all been there.  That point in the course of an endeavor or time in our lives where we just don't know what to do.  We are overwhelmed, unsure, and our brains feel stretched.  A lot of people give up in these times or just put their head in the sand and don't deal with it.

But, here's the secret - these are some of the greatest times in your life to grow.  If you can overcome the confusion, inertia, and propensity not to act; you'll be amazed at how it can help you get to your next level.  Always remember that the bigger the problems you can handle, the bigger your business and you personally can grow.

So, what do you do when you don't know what to do?

First, Take Inventory.  Step back, take 5-10 deep breaths and allow logic to help you get a handle on things.  What is the problem?  What do you feel overwhelmed or like you don't know what to do?  Think of 2-3 actions that you know would start to help you go in the right direction.

Second, Focus on What You Can Control.  As yourself, what you can control and affect in the situation and what you cannot.  Then ask yourself, what you actually need to control.  This will separate out a lot of the confusion because we usually are overwhelmed in thinking about all the things we cannot control.  This does no good simply because you cannot control them.  So, narrow your focus on what you can do and take the first action step.

Third, Ask Yourself Who Can Help and Why.  Don't go it alone.  Get help. Fast.  Identify where you need help, who you need it from, and why you need it - then ask for it.  It does you no good to procrastinate here.  It just delays you from getting the result you need and will further complicate the situation.  Ask for help.

Lastly, Create a Checklist.  Write down your action steps and then systematically and methodically go about doing them, checking them off the list.  While you do this, have a sense of urgency.  Get it done, but do it right.

If you follow these 4 steps, you can overcome most times in your life where you feel lost or don't know what to do.  The key, like in anything, is to follow the steps and take action.  Remember, the bigger the problems you can handle, bigger your business and you can grow!