The most successful have a secret. It's one that they keep close and that they use to continuously achieve their goals and succeed at the highest level.
The secret? Radical Responsibility.
What is Radical Responsibility? Radical Responsibility is the adherence to the principle that you are responsible for everything in your life and business. It is understanding that you are in control and that your decisions are yours to be accountable to. Even if that means that a decision you make leads to someone else making a mistake.
Why is this so important? Because if you don't take Radical Responsibility for your thoughts, actions, and decisions, then that means you are ceding that control (and power) to someone or something else. And when you lose that control, you give away your right to make your own destiny and have control over your success.
But Radical Responsibility is hard to do. It's hard to be responsible for everything in our lives in today's world. In an age of people "playing the role of the victim" and using victim status to try and enrich themselves; it seems that it is much easier to give up our responsibility. But, in truth, it is not. When you "play the role of the victim" and give up your right to control, you essentially become a slave to the mentality and everything that comes with it. It now controls you and your life.
And truth be told, in the end, there is no successful "fake" victim. Don't get me wrong. There are real victims of terrible things, that show the world what courage truly is, when they rise from their terrible tragedy to succeed. But, if you think about that, what are they doing to do that? They are taking responsibility for themselves - Radical Responsibility. It's ironic to me that people that "fake" being a victim are the ones that give away their right of control and responsibility, and true victims that find the power to move forward are the ones that are responsible, take control, and ultimately succeed. That's karma for being a fake, I guess.
No matter who you are or what situation you have in life, BE strong, and resolve to take Radical Responsibility for yourself. You will amazed at how it will change your life.
This won't be a long post because it doesn't have to be...but it is good reminder or "shock" to reality that people need to remind themselves.
Everything you want has a price. And depending what it is, that price can be large or small. The key question for anyone is "Are you willing to pay the true price for what you want?" You can achieve your dreams and you can get what you want in life, business, or in any endeavor if you are willing to pay their price.
Most people are not willing to do this. Once they find out what the price is - the things they have to do, the sacrifices they have to make, the perseverance they need to have, and maybe even some pain that they have to endure to get what they want or reach their dreams- they don't have the courage to move forward.
My challenge to you is first, get clear on the price that must be paid for what you want. Be real about it and make sure you truly know what it is. Most people live in a fantasy world until reality smacks them in the face. This happen to you. Second, once you know the price, now matter how great or small it is; have the courage to move forward and pay it to reach your goals and dreams - and ultimately your true potential. Pay the price!
Diamonds are formed about 100 miles below the earth's surface. It takes a serious amount of pressure and high temperature for them to form. We obviously can't drill or dig 100 miles down in the earth, so how do diamonds end up at the surface? It happens over a very long time through very deep volcanic eruption, most of it a long time ago, and this brought the diamonds we find today to the surface. In fact, it takes on average between 1 and 3 billion years for a diamond to form.
Now consider this - about 133 million carats of rough diamonds are mined each year. But to find those diamonds, hundreds upon hundreds of millions of TONS of rock and dirt are moved to find them. That is billions of pounds of rock and dirt. It is safe to say that there is a lot more dirt than there are diamonds.
And people and companies will move heaven and earth (or dirt) to find them. They will go through every challenge, trial, and tribulation to find them. They work around the clock and spend years just to find these small gems from inside the earth. They do this because they know the payoff in the end is worth it.
It's same with the "diamonds" in our lives and businesses. These are our goals, our missions, the things that we know will make the biggest difference in our lives and success. They are worth it and we must be willing to move heaven and earth to get them. Of course, this isn't easy. Life and entrepreneurship are full of twists, turns, failures, rejections, setbacks, crushing blows, and suffering. But it is so worth it to find our diamonds because they more than make up for all of challenges along the way to get them.
What are your diamonds? How much are you willing to endure to get them? How much "dirt" are you willing to move? Once we resign ourselves to the fact that there is more dirt than diamonds and you will need to move a ton of it to find, it gives you the perspective you need and the gratitude for the process it takes to find them and reap the benefits. Now, go out there and start digging!
Isn't it amazing how far you have gotten? If you look back at everything you've had to do to get to where you are today, it is truly amazing. In fact, the chances of you being alive today are so infinite, it truly is a miracle.
But, put that aside for a second. Now I want you to think about all of the people you have met and that have helped you and that you have helped along the way. Think about that one connection or that mentor or that person you helped and how your actions with them helped your life and success. I bet there are too many to count! And then think about how the chances that these things happened are even more infinite that you being alive!
The people you meet along the way, the relationships you build and create, and the lives you impact or are impacted by, are a huge part of your journey. And they are rare in the probability arena.
What have you learned from them? Are you taking it and using it to it's fullest every day? Are you doing your best to honor these people and their contribution to your life and success? The short answer for all of is, "Probably not." Me included.
But perspective is an important thing and it pays to take some focused time and think deeply about these connections in your life and what you have learned from your experiences with them. It will help to bring forth ideas, thoughts for how to take yourself to your next level, and how you can become a better overall person.
This happened to me just the other day. I was doing some work and came across some old notes taken from a mentor. As I thought about the wisdom in those words, I became excited at how much they had helped me over the years and felt a deep feeling of gratitude. The time spent reflecting was well spent as it gave new ideas for a problem I had been looking to solve.
It also gave me another idea for when these instances come up in life. After you have taken the time and reconnected with the incredible lessons, advice, and acts of service that helped to shape you and your future - take time to reach out to these people. Reconnect with them if it has been a while. Tell them "thank you" and share how your experience with them has made a difference in your life. In fact, I did this and ended up having a very timely call as this mentor had an opportunity that they wanted me to participate in.
So you never know, new opportunities and ideas could just happen through reconnecting. Never forget the people you meet along the way!
You are hero. You may just not know it yet. The clip above from Thor is a funny scene, but the words spoke are simple and true.
"Heroes run toward their problems, not away from them."
One of the best ways to get real results and up your game is to grow yourself to be bigger than the problems you encounter. To embrace going after your problems - running toward them.
Most people avoid their BIG problems. The ones they know they really need to deal with. They put them aside as long as they can until ultimately they have to be dealt with or blow up in their face. This does not good for them or their ability to reach their potential as they are always playing from behind.
If you can see it through to embrace and attack your BIG problems as they come up, you will get better at solving them and you will get better at handling problems. And the bigger the problems that you can solve, the bigger the business you can have and the more you can grow. Think of it this way. If you are set to be able to level 5 problems (on a scale of 1-10) and you get a level 8 problem - you're in trouble. But, let's say you attack that level 8 problem and in doing so, learn some great lessons that you can use for problems in the future thus growing yourself to be able to handle a level 7 problem and so on....Pretty soon no problem or issue you run into seems to big or insurmountable.
The reason is that you have learned and grown and gotten better at solving problems and put that knowledge into action. As you repeat this cycle in your life getting better and better, you will find that you will be able to accomplish more than you ever thought possible.
So, run toward your problems and take pleasure in working through them - Because, that's what Heroes do!
Everyone wants to get more done and spend less time time doing it. There are also a billion different books, courses, and articles on how to maximize productivity.
And that's the problem. There is so much information on how to be productive and so many methodologies that most people spend more time trying to figure out what to do to get more done than actually doing it.
I've spent a lot of time figuring these things out myself over the years and have come to find a few things that really work well for just about everyone.
One of those is maximizing your "Productivity Zones."
What is a productivity zone? A productivity zone is the time or times where you are most focused and productive during the day.
For example, for me, 6am-8am and 1pm-4pm daily are the times that I have found myself to be most alert, focused, and productive. It may make sense as first thing in the morning I am refreshed and ready and things are quiet. But after putting in a couple solid hours of work, my brain is ready for a break, so I go and do my fitness regiment. This wakes me back up, feeds oxygen to my body, and gives me energy. After my daily fitness time, I am ready to go again, so I can settle in and be highly productive from 1-4pm.
I found these productivity zones by observing myself over time and tracking when I was most productive. And now, I make sure to schedule my most important tasks and meetings during these time blocks. In fact, I actually block the times on my calendar to make sure others do not take those times.
If you can tap into your productivity zones, you will be amazed at what you can accomplish. And that is the hack. It is not just about scheduling time to do things, but scheduling the time during when you are most productive. This will allow you to get substantially more done with the time you.
Everyone's productivity zones will be different, but ask yourself, "I am maximizing my productivity zones?" If not, do what you need to do to make sure you are. You will be amazed at what happens!
We have some of the most amazing listeners at the Misfit Entrepreneur. Not just for their incredible support of the show, but because of their own knowledge, insight, and curiosity. I am constantly amazed at the email we get and the ideas that people share.
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You, want to be rich right? You want to make more money? You want to be able to buy more of the things you want and live the lifestyle you want, right?
What if i told you, you were focused on the wrong thing.
You, probably like most people, are focused on getting "rich," But, if you really want have everything you want, you need to be focused on getting "wealthy." This is a major distinction.
Most people measure their wealth by how much they make. If they have a huge paycheck and make a lot of money, they think they are rich or wealthy. Being wealthy is not about how much you make, but about how much you keep.
Wealth, simply put, is the amount of days you can live without having to work. For example, if your bills are $5000/mo and you have $10,000 in the bank, you are 2 months' wealthy. Most people that make a lot of money are not wealthy. They are rich because they make a lot. But, they also spend a lot. In fact, if a lot of these people lost their primary source of income, they couldn't through a month at their level of lifestyle.
If you really want to have what you want, you need to change your focus from getting rich, to getting wealthy. Part of that is understanding that getting a big W2 paycheck is the worst way to make your money because it is the highest taxed form of money. The wealthy know this. That is why Warren Buffett says he pays less taxes than his secretary - because on a percentage basis, he does. His money is made from dividends, capital gains, and distributions from his businesses, which are all taxed at lower rates than the W2 income tax rates. Remember, it's not how much you make, it's how much you keep that matters.
Additionally, the wealthy have their money work for them in the form of assets such as business ownership, real estate, and investments. This helps to ensure that they remain wealthy and never outspend their ability to be wealthy. For example, if you have 10 rental properties that pay you $1000/mo each after expenses and your personal monthly bills are $7500, you are effectively infinitely wealthy.
How about you? Can you see the difference between being rich and being wealthy? Can you think of a change you need to make in the way you approach money that will help you begin to build wealth? Maybe you can set a goal to be so many days' or months' wealthy by a certain date.
Whatever you do, focus on being wealthy, not being rich!
Decisions. Decisions. Our life is full them. Everyday we make decisions in all areas of our lives, but every so often we have BIG decisions come to the table that we have to make.
This can be a challenge. Many times the big decisions can affect our lives, the lives or others, our family, our future, our career, and much more. We go back and forth agonizing about what to do and the ramifications of our ultimate decision. Doing this makes it even harder.
So, how do we go about making a big decision with logic and reason and ultimately confidence that we are making the right move? Years ago, I read about a strategy that none other than Ben Franklin had developed for just such a situation.
Ben wrote about it and said the following:
My way is to divide half a sheet of paper by a line into two columns; writing over the one Pro and over the other Con. Then during three or four days’ consideration, I put down under the different heads short hints of the different motives, that at different time occur to me, for or against the measure. When I have thus got them altogether in one view, I endeavor to estimate their respective weights; and where I find two, one on each side, that seem equal, I strike them both out. If I judge some two reasons con equal to some three reasons pro, I strike out five; and thus proceeding, I find where the balance lies; and if after a day or two of further consideration, nothing new that is of importance occurs on either side, I come to a determination accordingly.
The beauty of what Franklin came up with is it's simplicity. You simply write down your pros and cons of the decision and give them a weight of importance. The key is to give yourself a few days of doing it. Sleep on it as they say. Over the course of a few days, you'll have developed and settled on a pretty solid list.
At that point, you can see your pros and cons clearly and the decision will be become evident. I have used this method for many years and it has proved to be very effective and allowed me to come to great decisions in the end. Put it to work for you and see the difference it can make in your life!
For those of us with sight, we take "seeing" for granted. But in reality, what most people don't know is that you don't see with your eyes. Huh? The first time someone explained how eyesight works to me, I was fascinated.
We don't see with our eyes. We see with our minds. Our eyes are just the receptors that filter the information that our brain then takes and formulates into the world we see around us. In fact, there a multitude of spectrum's of "sight." We are actually wired to filter a tiny minute fraction.
The reason why makes sense. We would have sensory overload. We simply could not process everything our eyes could take in and feed our brain. Therefore, our brain quickly filters out most everything to get the few things that matter for us to do what we need to do. It focuses only on the most important things we need to see.
A great example is the famous Invisible Gorilla Experiment where people were asked to count how many times the people in white shirts passed a ball. While all this is going on, a person in a gorilla suit comes out and stands in the middle of them, beats his chest and walks out. When this was originally done, 50% of the people never saw the gorilla because their brains were focused on counting the times the basketball was passed. We "see" with our minds.
Once you understand this, it can open up a lot for you. It can cause you to look at things in entirely new ways. It can cause you to question the way you see something and maybe see an opportunity that was never there. Maybe, you can even see the future because you are not limited by being unaware that you see with your mind and your eyes are really just receptors for the information.
Armed with the knowledge, you can look at the world, you can look at business, you can look at people and have a better understanding of where things may go in the future and position yourself to take advantage.
For example, I was recently in an Uber where I saw a fantastic new idea - a future for a lot of things. A lot of Uber drivers will offer snacks or bottles of water on their own, but this Uber was different. In the middle section between the two front seats, this Uber driver had a snack bar. And the snack bar was connected to an app that you could download and have an account where you can purchase any item. So, I checked it out and it's a cool new company that has basically turned Uber drivers into vending machines on the go. But, why stop there? What else could be offered through an Uber ride? Maybe a company could offer pet treats or something else.
The point is, most would just see this snack bar and think, cool idea. Maybe even sign up for the app. But, it is a window into the future of delivering goods and services if you know how to look for it. You can see things differently, because you have started to open your mind up to what it can see and look for.
So, challenge what you see and look beyond it to see what else is there. Who knows, maybe you will not only see, but be able to create the future.
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