If you ask most people if they want to be successful, they will say "Yes." But, when you ask them if they are willing do everything it takes to reach that success and if they know what they need to do, people are a lot less confident.
Success is earned. Just like freedom is earned. Last week, we remembered 9/11 in the United States and the horrific events of that day. On that day, the U.S. was attacked because of our way of life and the freedoms that our citizens enjoy. That freedom didn't just happen. It was earned. It was earned through our revolutionary war and by upholding the principles and ideals of our founding and protecting them for centuries. It can never be taken for granted or we will lose it.
Success is the same way. It is a disciplined commitment to a set of principles, ideals, and actions that you follow and never give up on. You have to keep going at it day in and day out, sometimes for many years to reach the success you desire. And even then, the success you get may not be what you envisioned when you started.
Success is earned over time by diligence, dedication, and experience. Every day you get better and closer to your goal. You are responsible for your effort and your commitment.
Interesting enough, the success you seek doesn't need to be done in a huge glorious way. It can be done in little increments of getting better. In fact, most success comes from getting better at the little things. And it doesn't take much. Think about the winner in an Olympic race. Many times, it comes down to 1/10 of a second or less. That can be a hand placement or foot position at the starting line. The littlest of things can make the biggest difference. The difference in getting a sale in a business could just how much faster you respond to a lead than your competition. It could be that last follow up on a potential partnership after you have exhausted yourself in the effort.
Ask yourself, "What can I do today to further my success?" Start each day this way and never stop! Earn your success.
How do you know how to sell?
It's a peculiar question. And the first time I was asked it as young executive, I have to admit, I was fumbling for an answer.
The truth is most people have never been taught how to sell. For many years, there was no "school" for it although that has changed over the last decade.
Most people that are in sales, end up there. They don't go looking for a sales position. They are accidental sales people. And because of this, many people in sales never reach their true potential.
So, back to the question. How do you know how to sell? Well, the truth is, all of us already have all the tools we need. It is wired in us as humans. One of the most innate abilities we have is to sell. We don't see it that way, but think about what you are doing when explain an idea you are excited about or if you like a guy or gal and convince them to go out with you - you are selling. You are selling yourself, an idea, a way of thinking, etc. In fact, we are always selling. Every day, we are selling something to somebody. We just see it as selling.
So, the truth is, you already know how to sell. You were born with the ability. You have just never been aware of it. And awareness is the catalyst to change.
Now, that you understand selling is in your blood, you can hone the skill and use it to help you in life. The best advice I can give you on how to better your sales skills is to be authentic, be honest, and know your worth. And most importantly, people buy you, before they buy your product or service.
That may sound like common sense, but so many people try to be someone else when they sell something and it is easy to spot. People know "when they are being sold." When you have "try and sell someone," that's not selling. It's more like desperation - and it's not authentic. Be true to who you are.
Next, be honest. Tell things like they are and be up front. There is always an element of tact needed. But, people will respect you when you are authentic and give them a true picture of things. Remember, people buy you first.
One of the places where salespeople hurt themselves the most is not knowing their worth. They give way to much when they don't have to- both to the detriment of their business and their own wallet. Salespeople have families and kids to feed to. Show your worth. Believe in it. Explain it honestly and true and be willing to stand by it. Not everyone will buy from you, but they will respect you, and you will be a lot more successful over the long run.
In the end, you should never have to "try to sell." Go back to how you are when you are sharing an idea or concept you are excited about with your friends or family. You don't see it as selling. It's the same way in business; you are dealing people just the same there. Always remember that.
We have all been there. We reach a point in our lives and work where there is just so much going on across so many areas that we can't seem to keep up with it all.
And in today's fast paced world and seemingly 24/7 instant environment, things can compound quickly and get away from us making us truly overwhelmed.
The worst part is that if we don't do anything about it, things continue to pile up to a point where we start to miss things, critical important things - and more importantly potentially miss out on potential opportunities.
So what do you do when this happens? How do you get out of being overwhelmed and get back on track?
I've one simple exercise that makes the biggest difference and alleviates this problem. It will take you about 10 mins to do.
When you feel yourself getting overwhelmed with tons of stuff to do and not knowing which things to work on or do first to remove the piling up of tasks, needs, and/or responsibilities - stop and write everything down.
I'm serious. Take 10 minutes, get away from your office or area of work and just do a brain dump of everything you have on your plate. Write everything down - work stuff, family stuff, personal stuff - get everything you think you have to do across your life out of your head.
Once you've done that, take a look at the items and decide if any don't belong or are really not things you need do, or more importantly, can delegate. Then prioritize the rest of the list from most important to least important and get working on them.
I know this seems so rudimentary and foundational, but it isn't funny how many of us forget to do these simple things and carry on in a state of flux and craziness from day to day.
This one simple exercise will save you so much time, help you to be more productive, and most importantly save your sanity!
There is one thing that can make you more money than really anything else. It is a small thing that most people forget or do sparingly - and it can be the difference between business success and failure.
What I am talking about? Following up. Following on your sales. Following up on your partnerships. Following up on all areas of your business to make sure things get done. Follow up.
Most people follow up once, maybe, but the real fortune is found way down the line. In fact, according to the National Sales Executive Association:
Even if you cut those stats in half, the bulk of sales would still be made after the 3rd contact. How many times are you or your teams following up? Do you have a follow up strategy in place for your sales? How about for your customers?
Remember, the fortune is always in the follow up, so go our there and make yours!
One of the hardest lessons for most new business owners to learn is the difference between being cheap and being frugal. You can understand why. When a business owner finally starts making some money from the hard work in their business, they want to reap some of the benefits. They want to be paid for the hard work and sacrifice they have put in to that point.
This usually happens in the early stages of a business - within the first year or two. But, the big mistake that most young entrepreneurs or new business owners make is becoming cheap and not spending on the things that will really take their business to its next level. At this stage in a business, it is not the time to stop investing - it is the most important time to invest. A business owner in this stage must be frugal in that they don't waste money, but they spend it on the things that will give a large return in the future.
The other issue that must be watched is short term thinking. Many new or young entrepreneurs are only focused on the next month or two at this stage in their business and are not being strategic about what is needed to 2x, 5x, or 10x their business over the next year or two. You must remember to delay gratification at this stage and invest back into your company if you are in this position.
This one mistake can delay or ruin the growth of a business.
For example, if you are having some success and generating positive cashflow, but you are still doing all of the roles in your company, ie. trying to sell every client, run operations, manage cash, etc., you are going to do a bad job. You will be a jack of all trades and a master of none and your business will flounder. Instead, invest in a great salesperson or contractor and don't worry about paying them commission for their work - it will pay off 10 fold down the line. Or maybe you need some help with administration or getting all your processes and systems dialed in and documented (a critical key to success for a business), then bring in someone, whether a consultant for a period or an operations employee to help gets things dialed in. These are investments that will pay off, allow you to scale, and help you to make massive amounts of money. Don't be cheap and delay these investments.
Lastly, this is also the stage where you should be on the hunt for A-players to form your rockstar team...and almost inevitably one will come along during this time that will cost more than you think you can afford. This will stretch you and stress you, but my advice is get them on-board. To find true A-players that will be as excited and devoted to your business as you, is difficult. They are basically diamonds in the the rough. Figure out a way to get them on-board. If you can't pay the salary, work with them to find a way to compensate them less in the beginning and more over time or give them something they don't have currently (maybe a more flexible schedule or more vacation). Do whatever you can to find a way to get them involved because they will make a huge difference in the future of your business.
Always remember, that there is a difference between being cheap and being frugal. Don't be cheap. Invest in your business and your future, and the rewards will be exponentially more than the little bit your are trying to hold onto in the early stages of your business!
One of the greatest business lessons you will ever get is going to the start with a 5 or 6 year old for them to buy something.
Recently, we were at the store picking up groceries and some odds and ends and my wife told our 6 year-old daughter that she could pick out a coloring book to get. If you have kids, I bet you can imagine what happened next. For next 15-20 minutes we sat there while the little tyke went back and forth on every single coloring book they had on display - picking almost every one and starting to put it in the cart only to stop and go back and pick a new one.
I watched amused as this went on and my wife, who had started to whole thing, go more annoyed to the point she had to do a countdown from 10 or my daughter was going to have the forfeit the book. It literally came down to the wire where on "1" she grabbed one and said "This one!" Of course, as we walked away, she started to second guess herself, etc.
As I watched and thought about this, it occurred to me that a big lesson was unfolding before me. A lesson that anyone who wants to truly succeed must learn and skill they must practice. The lesson? How to make decisions. Great leaders and successful entrepreneurs are decisive. They have the ability to look at all the angles in the moment and weight the consequences of the outcomes of their decisions on something quickly and act.
This is something I have practiced hard over the years and a skill you must learn. Your ability to think in the moment, separate emotion from logic, and see the different angles to make quick, solid decisions is priceless on your path to success. Make it a point to decide firmly and quickly - and to learn when you make a decision that was not the right one. You will get better and better and your success will grow as you do.
“Watch your thoughts, they become words;
watch your words, they become actions;
watch your actions, they become habits;
watch your habits, they become character;
watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”
Read the quote above again. Think deeply about it....
Do you know what it means? Do you understand the power that is in that short amount of words? It is one of the most powerful statements every uttered and it can change your life.
If you take everything but the first 3 words and the the last 5 words, what do you get? You get, "Watch your thoughts, for it becomes destiny." Everything and I mean everything begins in your thoughts.
Your beliefs, how you feel about yourself, your worldview, your worthiness, you attitude about life, you confidence or lack there of - even your physical capabilities all start in your thoughts. What you think every second of every day determines your world and the life around you.
If you believe the world is stacked against you, it will be.
If you believe that you are not worthy of reaching the levels of success you want, you won't.
If you believe that your life sucks, it will.
If you believe that you are destined to fail in relationships, you will.
If you believe that you cannot climb the mountain, you won't.
What do you believe? What thoughts are going through your head right now? What thoughts should you have?
Change your thoughts and you will change everything. You will change your life and live in a way that you have never lived before. Think and Start Living!
It's a very exciting time of year. It's time for all the hard work and effort for college students over the years to culminate in graduation. It can also be a scary time for a lot of graduates. For many, they have known school and working toward grades, etc. their whole life and now its all over. They are asking, "Now what?" or "What am I going to do?" or "I have a job, but I'm still nervous, etc."
There is nothing odd about this. In fact, it's almost a right of passage in life. I've had the chance to speak to and advise a lot of grads over the years and we talk about a number of things, but I also make sure to tell them the following 3 tips to succeed.
#1: Your Education Doesn't Stop at Graduation
The real world is different than school, especially in business or entrepreneurship. There are so many opportunities and potential avenues out there for you. Keep learning. In fact, some of the best education you will get is self-education. One of the best ways to succeed early on is to become a voracious self-developer. Read books, listen to podcasts, go to sites like Skillshare or Udemy and learn from those doing it every day in the trenches. Most importantly act on what you learn - don't just consume, try things out. Don't worry if it fails...and that brings me to my next piece of advice to succeed.
#2: Take Chances, Fail, and Enjoy the Ride (Learn about Asymmetric Risk)
Now, is not the time to be conservative. For the next 3-5 years, you can really take chances and some risks, have some failures, and still be fine. But, don't go out without common sense. Learn to take "Asymetric Risk." Asymmetric risks are risks that if taken, have small downsides, but have major upside potential. If you can take a risk that if you fail, might hurt a little, but not wipe you out, but at the same time, if you succeed, have much more upside that even if you are half-right, it is major success - then you have an asymmetric Risk.
For example, for someone who wants to invest in real estate, an asymmetric risk might be to buy a duplex and live in one side, while you rent the other out. The rent from the other side may not cover all of the costs, but maybe you pay much less than you would if you just bought a place or rented one yourself. And you are building equity in an asset that you can eventually move on from and keep for cashflow, sell, etc. The upside is tremendous, and the downside is that you have to pay the full payment for your place to live if you don't have a renter for a little while.
#3: Develop Your Financial Acumen
Personal finance and financial education in general, is not something that is taught as mandatory is most curriculum. This has always puzzled me and the reasons for not doing so that I speculate, I will save for another blog post. But, if you want to get off to a successful start, it literally pays, to get financially educated. Understanding the language of money, debt, compound interest, and investing is critical to succeed throughout your life, so why not get started as soon as possible? You can make it part of your new self-education routine. Whatever you do, recognize the importance of increasing your financial IQ and commit to doing so.
If you implement these 3 tips in your life as a new grad, you will be light years ahead of your peers on the path to success. Here's to a great start!
One of the biggest reasons I've had success over the years is because I've been fortunate to have great business partners committed to great partnerships. I was recently reflecting on some of these relationships and analyzing what has made them work so well and what I found was very interesting.
There are so many reasons that these partnerships have worked so well and produced, but after review, five of them really stood out. I have labeled these the 5 Secrets of Great Business Partnerships.
#1: All Parties Are Aligned for the Long-Term
One of the most important secrets of a great business partnership is alignment on timing. It is very hard to succeed if one partner wants to get in, make some money, and get out quickly while the other is taking an entirely different view. Additionally, I have seen many times that if the whole point of the partnership is to "make a quick buck" then it usually doesn't work out. Great partnerships blossom over time and usually the biggest successes come later down the road after the partners have worked together for awhile. If you are looking to partner with someone or another company, make sure that you both have a long-term view in mind.
#2: Treat it Like the Marriage That It Is
A great partnership is very much like a marriage. In fact, you may spend more time with your business partner than you do with your significant other at times. And like a marriage, not everything is going to be sunshine and lollipops all the time. There will be times where you aggravate each other beyond belief. There will be very hard times and hurdles that you have to maintain your commitment to each other through. There will also be amazing times and lasting memories. But, it is very important that you go into things committed to it like a marriage, realizing that you will grow closer together over time and have to learn each other ways, accept them, and learn to love each other for it - even when those things potentially drive you nuts.
#3: Be Open About Your Strengths and Weaknesses with Each Other Before Partnering
One important secret of great partners is that they are fully transparent about their strengths and weaknesses going into the relationship. They don't see weaknesses as a detriment or a bad thing. They see them as an opportunity for the partner to fill the gap. If you don't lay these things out on the table prior to starting the relationship; you may get into it and find that you have the same weaknesses or strengths and that the partnership is not as strong as it should have been. Great partnerships always share some of the same strengths and weaknesses, but they compliment each other in their bigger deficiencies. Make sure to use this secret to your advantage.
#4: Your Spouse or Significant Other Approves
If you are going to essentially be married to someone else alongside your spouse or significant other, they better like each other or it will create massive headaches for everyone. A huge secret of great partnerships is that their spouse or significant other approves of who they are partnering with. After all, they are, by default, partnering as well. Make sure that your spouse or significant other and potential partner meet beforehand and spend time together with you. If they can't get along and if your spouse or significant other has serious reservations about them, you're better off not going into business with them. Keep looking for a partner that checks this box in addition to the others.
#5 Can You See Yourself Genuinely Caring for Them Like Family?
The fifth secret is that great partners genuinely care about each other and their families. They see each other almost as family - so it goes beyond business, and so does the bond between them. If you are evaluating a potential business partner and they are checking the boxes in the other secret reasons above, make sure that you can definitely answer the question, "Can I see myself genuinely caring for this person and their family and well-being - not just a way to help me in business?" If you can answer that in your head and your heart and act in accordance with it, you are ahead of many partnerships in your relationship.
After 16 weeks of grueling training, I was ready for race week for my latest Ironman. As I went into the week, I could not help but notice how things took on a new importance and how my attention to them was more focused than usual. As I thought about it, I asked myself, "What if every week was treated like race week, not just for an athletic pursuit, but in business?"
As I pondered the question I began to think of how it would affect my life if I treated every week like race week. Granted that I follow a pretty rigorous training routine and have a healthy focus and discipline on a weekly basis for my goals, but even with that, some things still stood out to me.
First off, race week has a special feeling to it. All of your senses are heightened as you get ready for the event. There is a sort of excitement in the back of your mind mixed with a little bit of nervousness for how things will ultimately turn out. An Ironman is a 2.4 mile swim, followed by a 112 mile bike ride, and then a full marathon, so a lot can transpire and you need to be prepared and ready for everything from being kicked in the face during your swim to a flat tire on your ride and fatigued muscles when you get to your run (and a host of other potential things). Your mental preparation is just as a important as your physical. On top of that, it is a race. It is a competition. The biggest thing you are competing against is yourself, but make no mistake a close second to that is you competing against the other racers. All of this really gets real in race week.
Additionally, during race week, you pay very close attention to your sleep making sure you are well rested throughout the week. You take extra care of your body through your eating during the week, prepping your body and muscles through stretching, massage, and light activity to keep yourself loose. You also become very focused in on your goal(s) for the race. You have to steady your emotions and not get "too high or too low" so you can manage your emotional energy alongside your physical. You also have to think through all of your transitions and your nutrition for the day during the various aspects of the race and make sure everything is prepared and ready. Lastly, you do a lot of visualizing of the courses, how you will feel at different points; really for me, I try to visualize every aspect of the race in my head and almost play it through ahead of time so my mind has a sort of plan or "experience" on the course.
Race week requires a very special focus and attention. Why shouldn't every week be like that? Especially in your business? Imagine if you approached every week with a big goal, a competition that you were going into, and you had to visualize and prepare for the challenges and outcome. Imagine what would happen if you were focused on your sleep, diet, exercise, and mental awareness needed to be your best. Imagine, if you were prepared to manage your energy through the week to make sure you were operating at the optimum levels.
What would happen to your results? Where could your business be in 12 months if you approached every week like a race week? I bet, you would be exponentially more successful than you are now. So, make a choice to take it up a level. Treat every week like race week. Pick a "race" for your business each week. Make it a big goal to achieve to move the business forward and the go about it reaching it in "race week" state of mind.
You'll be surprised at how much you can achieve!
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